Monica Kansal
- A Brief about yourself and how you describe your own Personality and Persona.
I am a very kind person who cannot see anyone in pain. I am a homemaker as well as an administrator in our family business. I am very confident as well as humble,sweet natured n desciplined person. I write poetry and rap and it helps me in refreshing my mood.I am crazy about travelling and driving. I am loved the most among my circle. I have a good fashion sense n people follow me.. I am an actor and a good dancer and I keep myself fit by yoga and gym. I have a very good sense of humour and I always try to bring smiles to peoples'faces.I am so energetic that i can handle the pressure of home and office both . I am a positive minded person and strongly believe in God.
- Your Achievements that makes you feel high.
My true achievement is the love and respect given by my family, friends and loved ones.I was the allrounder student.I won many prizes in sports n dance competitions. I used to be the most meritorios student throughout and was a position holder in the university. I was the first from my family who came out and worked as a lecturer. Still I teach the poor and needy children around me. I am among the very few women in such a small city of ours who is into the business.When i help someone,their happy faces make me feel high.I am the only female among all the male workers in the office. I have earned respect. And above all the trust and love I earned from my family makes me feel really high who always support me and motivate me.
- Define the true beauty.
Beauty lies in beholder's eyes.this quote is true to some extent because everyone has his own perception about beauty, but for me beauty is that which touches our hearts. Each creation of God is beautiful whether they are white or black...skin color is no criterion for beauty. I find each individual beautiful. Beauty is not defined if someone is very fair, slim, tall or attractive; But it is truly defined by a person's behaviour, character, good mannerism, giving respect to all, being kind, humble and his/her attitude towards all.Outer beauty has to die one day and i get fascinated by peoples,qualities.
- What makes a complete, healthy and happy family for you?
Family is the most important thing in the world and I love my family the most. Happy family is where there is love n respect for each one.where parents and children support each other.A happy family is that where all laugh together, play together, pray together, cry together, celebrate together, solve the problems together,holiday together, shop together etc..where all have courage to forgive another's faults without any egos; where no one complaints about not having the particular thing but is satisfied with what they have; where everyone has liberty to keep their views. For me all these rules make a happy ,healthy n complete family.
- What is your favourite Idea of Holidaying?
My perfect holiday would always be with my family. We have travelled a lot through many countries but the best holiday of us was Singapore and cruise where we celebrated our 25th wedding anniversary in july this year with our sons. The moments spent there were the moments I will cherish throughout my life. What could I ask for more when we were cutting the beautiful cake and were raising a toast of champagne amidst the wavy sea. All made me feel like a queen. I would love to be on cruise on my golden jublee too with my husband, my sons, my daughters in law and my grand children. I dont think any holiday can be better than this.
- Why you are participating in Mrs India Queen of Substance?
I want to participate in Mrs India pageant for recognition and identity.I want to make my husband, my parents and my children proud of me as they keep on motivating me.I belong to a state where people are known for sports only.Here in such small cities,women dont have liberty to stand out at their own and they are not allowed to participate in such pageants. If I win the title, I will be a role model for many of the woman. I will inspire and motivate the women in Haryana to come out and explore their talents. I want to prove that its talent which matters and not the city.
- What bothers you most about what is happening in the country today?
One of the thing that really bothers me about our country is the way our youth is increasingly engaged in drug abuse. In the recent years a lot of drugs have been made accessible to the youth of our nation. It is becoming relatively popular among the college and school students. It is really disastrous for our country as the youth is the greatest asset for a country and by engaging in such activities they really play with their future. A lot of deaths have been reported from drug abuse in our country and the increasing rate of these cases is very alarming. I think that sufficient steps should be taken to spread awareness about this and also strict laws should be implemented to curb these practices..
- The Quote or saying that encourages you?
Accept the people as they are. Never try to change them according to your wishes and try to understand them. Each one is different and unique in its own way. Try to find out the qualities in them not the faults. Do good to others and it will come back to you in unexpected ways. God has gifted each one of us with the special qualities .We are not so perfect to judge others. Love and forgive all to maintain relations. Learn to respect all. Never pull anyone down. Never hurt anyone by your deeds or words.
- What is true “Sportsmanship†for you?
True sportsmanship for me is playing by the rules and playing fair. It is when  you are a winner even when you lose. When we are a part of a competition or a sport we tend to get really competitive and sometimes we lose our ethics, but those who keep their values and ethics strong are true sportsman for me.we only have to give our best and then we are winners in our own. Sportsmanship is reflected in small gestures which lifts the spirit of the game like shaking hands at the end of the game or hugging each other. In one line sportsmanship is when both sides emerge as winners and there are no losers.
- If you were selected as a Charity Ambassador what Value addition would you like to make for our Society and how?
If I am selected then for sure i will do something for upliftment of condition of women in haryana. We have the worst sex ratio in the country, although government has launched schemes like 'beti bachai beti padao' but the situation is not improved much due to illiteracy. I would join hands with this campeign. I have future plans for village women who have talents and abilities. I will give them vision to work and stand by their own by providing them required facilities .I will educate the women not to differentiate among boys and girls. To save the human race, we will have to save the girl child who are killed before birth due to ignorance and backwardness of women here.I have to make the women awake in building a strong nation.
