Dr Shilpa Deshnur

• Bangalore

• A Brief about yourself and how you describe your own Personality and Persona.

I am a Dentist by profession running my own clinic (Cosmo family dental clinic jp nagar ) in Bangalore successfully, all patients are satisfied with my service. I am very ambitious, active, skilled & have high will power. I am very passionate about activities like organising cultural events, pooja & spiritual events, organising donation camps for underprivileged people, orphanages, physically handicapped people, conducted dental awareness camp, garbage cleaning activity in the public area like lakes & parks. I am crazy to do everything in my life, love to dance, wear stylish dresses, dress well for occasions, modelling & fashion show (but never got time to participate) art & craft, painting, rangoli, learning musical instruments, I put mehndi (hobby), I do decoration in society events. I am fun loving, always like to keep myself busy. I love to teach different things to my daughter if time permits. I have come up in my life with my hard work, faced many challenges, I never got any opportunities to learn anything from my childhood due to very orthodox & strict family background. I got opportunity after my marriage my husband supports me a lot for everything.

• Your Achievements that make you feel high.

I was never good in studies but due to my father’s challenge i got a merit seat in BDS. I faced many challenges & insults in my life due to my nose & lip abnormality which I over came with my own will & determination. I am a successful person today; the same set of people who used to insult me earlier look up to me & give my example to their children. I have set up my own clinic without any business background in one of the fiercely competitive dentist markets in Bangalore & run my clinic very successfully. Despite of my abnormality in my face I took it up on myself to build different skillsets like art, crafts, rangoli, dancing, playing musical instruments & with the help of spirituality I was successful in overcoming this challenge.

• Define the true beauty.

True beauty will be within us. It’s about how we think, how we behave & treat others. That’s true beauty to me. We should be pure, happy, healthy mind, think positive, peaceful, powerful, keep smiling, be kind, be good, do good, be humble, be honest, down to earth, do not underestimate others, should not blame others faults or never insult. Whether it’s a friend or enemy we should pray for their wellness, never curse anyone in life. Pray God for everybody’s wellness. That is called as true beauty.

• What makes a complete, healthy and happy family for you?

If we maintain healthy diet, healthy habits, positive attitude, happy environment in & around us that itself makes healthy & happy life. We need to Provide all kind of facilities which is needed to lead a healthy& happy life for the family. Understanding others needs & situation, feelings of others & act accordingly.

• What is your favourite Idea of Holidaying?

I would like to visit oldest temples to see the true beauty of God, nature of olden days. They were more intelligent & stronger than us. I would love to see their life style in dwapar yuga, tritha yuga etc which is shown in sculpture in different form. They are like our role models in Kaliyuga. They were unique.

• Why you are participating in Mrs India Queen of Substance?

Since I am more ambitious & achievement oriented. I wanted to get more exposure towards different field like modelling from many years since I am passionate about it but was not aware about women’s pageant. Recently got to know through social media about this & felt very happy. I was impressed by the way you guys motivate the participants in the pageant. I feel I am lucky that i got to know about this.

• What bothers you most about what is happening in the country today?

I am more bothered about Indian economy, people have become so selfish & money minded. Indian government should focus more on development. Still, we need lot of facilities in the form of transportation, connectivity, road widening, closing the potholes, keeping the city very clean & tidy, but people are least bothered about all this. Due to our irresponsible behaviour we are lagging behind compare to other countries in spite of having most intelligent & talented people in India. Other countries are benefited by utilising Indians intelligence & growing. If Indian government supports our citizens without corruption we can be the world no 1 in any field which we want to be .

• The Quote or saying that encourages you?

I am happy, healthy, perfect, confident & peaceful. I am a powerful soul, I am calm & stable, divine energy is around me. These points encourage me a lot. I am inspired by B K Shivani positive thoughts (Bramhakumari). “Be good, Do good, Nothing is impossible”. I follow Ranveer Allabadia podcasts, Sadguru Jaggi & follow some spiritual guruji’s thoughts.

• What is true “Sportsmanship” for you?

There should not be external pressure or burden to desire for winning at all costs. Win with humility, honesty & integrity. Good character is required not just a good gesture. Play with passion without negativity & take failures positively.

• If you were selected as a Charity Ambassador what value addition would you like to make for our Society and how?

My goal is to support underprivileged, physically handicapped & needy people. I am sure every individual has some talent in them. We should find that talent in them & coach them to build on their skills/ talent. Help them to be independent & bring them up in their life. This will ensure the society will also appreciate & include them since society only appreciates successful & independent people.