Debashree

• Uttar Pradesh

• A Brief about yourself and how you describe your own Personality and Persona.

I, Diamond Queen Debashree Bardhan, is a conscious soul on Earth plane in search of my unique life path. Challenges were always a part of my life because I always questioned the ongoing norms and rituals, but I always overcome them through grit and perseverance. I am a spiritual seeker and a lifelong learner. Reading non-fiction books and doing meditations have helped me to grow as a conscious being. I love attending classes of my mentors and also helping others transform their lives. With degrees, diplomas and certificates across diverse fields, I blend knowledge with intuition to guide people towards self-awareness and joy! I choose to design my life with ease, joy and glory.

• Your Achievements that make you feel high.

Achievements that make me feel high --- Married for 20+ years Becoming a mother in 2011 Winning the Gold Medal in State Level Taekwondo Championship Earning the Black Belt along with my daughter (she also earned it with me) in January 2019 Publishing my first book --- CONVERSATION ‘WID’ ALL THE NUMBERS (9+1) (Author name ---GAUTMI RAJ --- my pen name) My book being in the Top 10 books published in the first half of 2025 My book being in The Great Indian Book Tour’s Stall in NEW DELHI WORLD BOOK FAIR 2026 Winning prize in craft making and online cooking competition Being a tuition teacher for many years Learning NLP & Law of Attraction and attracting miracles in my life through consciousness Becoming a certified Handwriting Analyst and Grapho-Analytical Therapist (Graphologist) Reversing my thyroid issues (which my physician father had mentioned as incurable) and 100% out of medicine/medicine dependency for 4+ years Certified Numerologist Travelling on my own to different cities of India Diploma in Rabindra-sangeet (Tagore songs) and Fine Arts Completing my Bachelors & Masters Degree in Philosophy and History & Tourism Management respectively Certified in different natural healing modalities through Water, Crystal, Chakra, Music and other ways and also healing myself and others Making handmade Soft Toys and craft items Becoming a Inner Child Healer

• Define the true beauty.

In my childhood, I came across a quote ---- “Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder”! So, does true beauty can truly be defined? I would like to share that, when I was a teenager, I had watched a short story in Bengali on tv, called “SUNDAR” which means beauty! There it was shown that a lady has come to give the interview for the receptionist and she meets a gentleman in the lobby area, who taught her a way to see BEAUTY in everything and everyone she would see and also tell them with an explanation! Just by following this simple ritual, she was able to get married to the owner of the same company where she had come for the job! This question made me remember the essence of true beauty --- it’s up to us to discover that beauty in ourselves and our surrounding. Thank You Thank You Thank You

• What makes a complete, healthy and happy family for you?

Complete --- even though we may feel that we are incomplete without marriage, without children, without a pet, without owning a house or a car; but at the energy level All of Us, even as Individuals, are always Whole and Complete. All of us are Abundant Souls who have come to the Earth School to experience certain emotions and grow! Healthy --- health includes mental/emotional, psychological, spiritual as well as physical health. Most people look for physical health and more specifically diet and exercise. Health includes mindful eating and sleeping, physical movement, balance of our energy centres or chakras, good mood, responding instead of reacting, grounding excess energy and also going with the flow and creating more consciously! Happy --- happiness is a choice of the individual. So, the language of happiness is different for everyone. We choose to be happy in our own unique ways! So, for me, a complete healthy happy family is one where everyone knows each other’s love language and make conscious choice to be healthy and happy in their own way! Also at the basic level, everything is energy --- so complete, happy, healthy, family are also energy which we create based on our frequency!!! Thank You Thank You Thank You Favourite Idea of Holidaying --- It must be a place of common interest of all the family members, with a balance of leisure and fun and activities to be enjoyed together. For me/us, it’s mostly mountains or the beach or even places with historic importance. We love staying in “Rajbari” (house of the zamindars or some rulers) too and enjoy the aristocracy. Holidaying generally brings us closer and brings more joy in our lives when we are consciously choosing our ease and joy! Thank You Thank You Thank You

• What is your favourite Idea of Holidaying?

It must be a place of common interest of all the family members, with a balance of leisure and fun and activities to be enjoyed together. For me/us, it’s mostly mountains or the beach or even places with historic importance. We love staying in “Rajbari” (house of the zamindars or some rulers) too and enjoy the aristocracy. Holidaying generally brings us closer and brings more joy in our lives when we are consciously choosing our ease and joy! Thank You Thank You Thank You

• Why you are participating in Mrs India Queen of Substance?

I was just a teenager when Sushmita Sen became Miss Universe in 1994! I just told to myself that Sushmita is a Bengali and so am I! If Sushmita can win Miss Universe pageant, then so can I! Then it dawned to me that my family is against all this and I was not even allowed to wear jeans also! I also came to know about Dr. Aditi Govitrikar when I was in college, who became Mrs. World in 2001. I told to myself that I have the chance to win a prestigious pageant even after marriage and was delighted. Then last year December I came across the ad of Mrs. India Queen of Substance and was super happy to know that it’s the most dignified pageant! It’s also the most respectable title and award in India for Married Women! I also came to know that there’s no swimsuit round and that was a breather for me! Even for the dresses, I can wear whatever I’m comfortable with and that pleased me the most! It’s like I have attracted this awesome opportunity in my life by upgrading my frequency!!! Thank You Thank You Thank You

• What bothers you most about what is happening in the country today?

Two things came in my awareness --- unemployment and women’s safety! I am not here to solve any problem but if you STOP SOLVING & START EVOLVING, you would be able to attract something better! Most of the young generation study to get a job. But if we stop thinking about a job and start questioning ourselves on what problem of my society can I solve? or What unique abilities do I have for which people would pay me? Then only we would start evolving to a different level of consciousness and start attracting new opportunities with ease and joy! In addition to this I would recommend all the kids, mainly girls/young women, to learn any martial arts or any type of sports which would give them the much-needed confidence and eradicate fear! Taekwondo, the South Korean martial arts, did that for both my daughter and myself! Thank You Thank You Thank You

• The Quote or saying that encourages you?

There are actually 2-3 of them and I choose to share them with you. The song “WE SHALL OVERCOME” The most famous quote of Swami Vivekananda, which says --- “ARISE, AWAKE, AND STOP NOT TILL THE GOAL IS REACHED” --- always inspires me! The most basic and profound statement of Access Consciousness, founded by Gary Douglas --- “ALL OF LIFE COMES TO ME WITH EASE, JOY AND GLORY” --- this clears all the unwanted energy around me and brings me back to my ABUNDANT SELF!!!

• What is true “Sportsmanship” for you?

There’s a quote which I came to know in my childhood --- “UNITED WE STAND, DIVIDED WE FALL”! I know that AT THE ENERGY LEVEL WE ARE ONE, so even if I or anyone else wins, it would always a WIN for me. In addition to it, true sportsmanship is also of WIN-WIN --- win for all, win in every aspect of life. It’s about growing together with ease and joy and glory!!! Thank You Thank You Thank You

• If you were selected as a Charity Ambassador what value addition would you like to make for our Society and how?

As a Charity Ambassador myself, I would choose to work for the people, who live in the most interior region of the Sunderbans, which is the largest mangrove forest and it’s located in parts of my home state West Bengal and also in Bangladesh. It’s the largest Delta region in the world. Any help is also very difficult to reach them because people there live in very challenging situations. When they go to forest in search of honey, they don’t even know they would return or not! The Royal Bengal tigers can take their lives or even take out some flesh from their face! In the water, there’s saltwater crocodiles who have the ability to take away the legs immersed in water without the knowledge of the person!!! So I would choose to raise more awareness in people and secure more support or donations for the upliftment of the lives of those people. The children also lack good quality education as they have to travel long distance, mainly on feet to attend schools. They are also given meagre wages for the work they do. Almost every year, due to cyclones in the summer months, they also lose their homes and belongings and are forced to stay under the sky or in makeshift homes made with plastic sheets! For many years, I have contributed in this cause and have an intention to continue to do so on a large scale. Thank You Thank You Thank You